TTRC hosts its first international candlelight memorial observance

The HIV and AIDS Office of the Trinidad and Tobago Red Cross Society held its first observance of the International Candlelight Memorial on Friday 16th May – two days prior to the actual commemoration which occurs on the third Sunday of May.

The event was deemed as an intimate affair, therefore, no invitations were issued to the public.  It was rather, a time to share and reflect among TTRCS staff, volunteers and stakeholders/supporters.  This memorial encouraged everyone present to explore the international theme “NEVER GIVE UP. NEVER FORGET”.

Historically, the memorial started in 1983, 25 years ago – ‘a generation ago’ as described by the TTRCS President, Ms. Delia Chatoor.  

She pointed out that the memorial is based on four key objectives:
(i). It is to honour those who succumbed to AIDS
(ii). It is to show support for those living with HIV and AIDS (PLWHA)
(iii). It is to raise awareness within our communities of HIV and AIDS and very critical,
to decrease stigma related to HIV and AIDS and
(iv). To mobilize the community so that all will get involved in the fight against HIV and AIDS.

Ms. Chatoor further stated that ‘in 1983, the cause of AIDS was unknown.  We have come a very long way. Equally critical, however, is the reality that no country is spared the fact that HIV and AIDS do require international attention.’

 She elaborated, ‘In approaching the pandemic, all should be reminded of the profoundness of an idea.’  Thus, implying that we need to employ creativity and encourage the spirit of active participation.

A PLWHA gave his testimonial of the issues faced by someone living with the virus.  His account encouraged the TTRCS to do more since no one in this world is spared the stark reality of HIV and AIDS.  As he rightly put it, ‘if you not directly infected, you are affected’ since HIV is a lifestyle disease.  

He spoke about his life and the challenges that he had to face.  He pointed out that in spite of the information that is available people are still being irresponsible where their sexuality is concerned.  

He encouraged persons to get tested since when the reality hits us, if we are not aware, ‘HIV have the tendency to open Pandora’s boxes’.

Ms. Bernice Obasi moderated a sharing session where the audience was invited to share their experiences.  Among the themes coming out of the discussion were: discrimination, culture, respecting difference and diversity and the fundamental principles of the Red Cross Society.

Ancil Valley provided us with a lovely song to tie up the evening’s session but he gave his account stating that discrimination continues when ‘we like people only when they fit into moulds.’  His song endeared us to ‘Stand and don’t you dare give up.’

A minute of silence was observed, followed by the lighting of the candles, with the first candle being lighted by the President, TTRCS.  The programme was closed with the reading of 1 Corinthians 13 – indicating that the greatest gifts that one can have are Love and Charity.

Everyone was thanked for their effort in making the evening a reality and a pledge was made to have this observance every year in the TTRCS.