Imagine having nine children ranging 20 months
to 22 years old, plus one 14 months old grandchild, to take care
of all by yourself, on an income from a little shop you own.
Imagine being hit by three hurricanes
within less than a year. Imagine losing everything you have
including your home, your only means of income, and anything
else that helped to ease the struggle of being a single mother.
Could anything get worse?
Actually yes - it could. Thirty six year old Paulina Robertson
had finally decided that she would raise her 11 children (including
her grandchild) on her own, without the support of the already
delinquent fathers.
Her children, a couple of whom had to discontinue further schooling
because of financial reasons, had big dreams. In fact they still
do. “I want to become a nurse,” says a smiling Shanice.
Shanice, who’s nine years old, has achieved exceptionally
high grades in all of her subjects. Marlon, 17, wants to become
a mechanic engineer but would like to get the money to finish
school.
Though things were not all rosy, they were not that bad, because
they had a home. That is until ‘the worse’ happened
- the passage of Hurricane Dennis, the disaster which changed
their lives dramatically on July 7, 2005.
The family lost their entire house as well as their only means
of income, a shop, when waters from hurricane Dennis flooded
their home on that dreadful day.
“I feel like just giving up,” exclaimed the exasperated and
dejected mother. Since after deciding to raise her children on her own, with
no forthcoming help from any of the four fathers, the passage of the hurricane
only made an unfortunate situation even worse.
Two weeks after the disaster, they were the only family left
at the Yallahs Primary school shelter. But it wasn’t all
doom for this family.On hearing about their plight, the Jamaica
Red Cross decided to render assistance. A volunteer of the St.
Thomas branch along with representatives from the National Headquarters,
including a psychologist from the Disaster Mental Health Unit
(DMHU), visited the family and provided physical as well as psychological
support.
The family received food packages, hygiene kit, baby diapers,
two mattresses, a stove and a cylinder, among other items,
to help get them back on their feet again.
“I am really thankful for what the Red Cross has done for me and
my family,” exclaimed the appreciative mother.
But despite the help received, this mother and her family will
still need a place where they can call home, a place other
than the school shelter.
“I’d really love if somebody can help us to get back our house,” she
pleaded. Though she lost the only means she knew of getting an income, and
though she has no skill, Paulina is willing to try anything she can to help
get back on her feet.
“If I get back a house, I will try and work out something”, she
commented. The family has just over two weeks before school opens, which means
they will definitely need somewhere else to live before then.
Meanwhile, the Red Cross, along with the Ministry of Labour
and Social Security, is working on constructing a housing unit
for the family so they will soon have a place they can call
home.
In St. Elizabeth, another family was also affected by the passage
of another hurricane, this time hurricane Emily, which passed
on Saturday July 16. The effects were just as unfortunate and
even more tragic. A car with five persons was traveling along
a road in St. Elizabeth when it overturned into a river. The
bodies of the five persons were found a few days after. They
were 23 year old Natanya Irving, her two children, five months
old and four years old, a cousin and a friend.
Red Cross representatives, including the St. Elizabeth Branch
Director and a counselor from the DMHU, visited the family
of Natanya and her two children.
The family, which included her mother, father, sister and brothers,
received assistance from the Red Cross including food packages,
hygiene kit and tarpaulin as well as psychological support
from the DMHU counselor.
Though the help received could never fill the void now left
by the family’s loss, it certainly provided a step on the
road to recovery.
The family is now trying to deal with
their loss while still holding on to what they have. The DMHU
stands ready and prepared to offer further assistance or referral
where necessary.